Wednesday, September 27, 2017

How to be Poor

TEACH YOUR CHILDREN TO BE POOR

We need to learn how to be poor. Don’t think it’s too late. Or, if you think it’s too late for you, maybe you can teach your children. You can teach them how to be poor and enjoy that poverty. Teach them to be poor in hate. If you teach your children how to be poor in hate, they can learn how to be rich in love. Teach children -or better yet, let’s all learn- how to be poor in anger. We can teach children how to be poor in anger, which means that we can teach them how to be calm and relaxed. If you teach them how to be poor in anger, that means they will learn how to be rich, how to be calm and relaxed.

Teach your children to be poor. Learning how to be poor will ground them. They will be better people. Being poor in anger will develop a kind of wealth in different areas, such as patience. They will take the time to understand. Teaching them how to be poor in anger will make them rich in listening and analyzing. They will be rich in adapting. Teach your children, and you can learn in the meantime how to be poor in anger.

Teach your children to be the poorest in judgement. Don’t teach your children to judge people over assumptions. Prejudice is the biggest problem in our time. Teach them how to be poor in judgement so they can be rich in discovery, understanding and learning. Teaching them how to be poor in certain areas makes them rich in understanding, and in health. If you get angry at children for their grades, please make yourself poor. If you are poor in yelling, poor in anger, poor in scolding, it will make your children rich in certain areas.

If you’re not poor in anger, hate and judgement, there will be drawbacks. You need to be poor in these, otherwise it could affect your physical being, it could affect your immune system. Learn how to be poor in stress. Be poor in unhealthy eating. In these areas, and some others, if you can’t be poor, at least teach your children. If your children are poor in these areas, they will develop wealth in calmness, understanding, joy, forgiveness. While you teach them, you will also learn. Every time you teach something new, you will learn something new. Teach your children how to be poor in haste. They will learn how to be patient. Make them rich by teaching them how to be poor, and they will appreciate it more later in life.

You can’t say you love your children and yourself if you are not poor in hate, in anger, in stress, in judgement. How will you be rich? How will you teach how to be rich? So, let’s teach our children how to be poor, and we will learn alongside them how to be rich. Let’s teach our children how to be poor, and we can make them reach for the greater good.

Just teach your children how to be poor, that is all. Teach them how to be poor, and make them rich. They will learn how to be rich, if you teach them how to be poor. The poverty here doesn’t have anything to do with finances. We are all humans. We are poor in certain behaviors, and that’s the reason we can’t get rich in the greater sense. Being poor is within you, within us. And it is possible to
change, by teaching how to be poor. We all need to start to be poor, before we can be rich. Teach your children how to be poor.

Tuesday, September 26, 2017

BEING LAZY IS NOT THAT BAD


You get mad at your kids because they're lazy. Please keep in mind that laziness is the beginning of creativity. Lazy people don’t prefer to work like other people, they don't like to study like other people. What they like is shortcuts. That's very important - because if you don't like working for eight, maybe more hours a day, you need to create some kind of fast and quick option in your life to make money, to pass classes, to study faster. So the solution can be your own creation, very unique, and you do everything faster than others.

Let's say you want to earn more than a hundred thousand a year: How can you do that without working so many hours, like the way your parents taught you? That was just learned behavior, it doesn't mean that you need to work constantly, by any means, to make more money. You just need to work efficiently, and the efficiency will bring you the amount of money you're looking for.

How long will it take? You never know, but if you find a quick way of working efficiently, you can reach your goals more easily. You should always have a backup plan, which we call Plan B. Your Plan B can be learning something quickly and working on it, then you can make more money out of your new profession. You can keep your job as long as you like. Although it allows you to make money on the side, the side job shouldn't be too complicated or demanding. You just do it to have extra money. And as you get more efficient or productive in your side job, you can spend more money on your family, you can spend more time with your family, and you can spend more time for yourself when you need to have “me time”.

So, being lazy is not that bad. Being lazy gives you the opportunity to overcome the challenges you were told, or taught, by your elders and your parents. That you need to work too much to earn money is not true. You need to work efficiently to make more money. And this efficiency changes from job to job. There are certain jobs that you can’t do for more than twenty hours, at most twenty five, and your efficiency will suffer if you work more. That's the nice thing about these jobs, you can find a way to make more money.

Don't get me wrong, working fewer hours and making more money doesn't mean that you won’t be efficient. Of course if you work twenty hours a week, it means you work an extra ten hours to obtain information. And this information can be used over and over again for your benefit.

So think about it: What kind of a job can help you more than a job that makes you work hours and hours...and hours...and hours? Just set a limit for yourself: How much money do you really need in your life to get to how you want to live? For example, let's say you want to work certain hours, plus you want to do certain things. Maybe you want to travel by yourself, maybe you don't want to travel but you like dining in nice, fancy restaurants. Or you want to dress very nice, very sharp and very chic. Or maybe you like buying expensive watches, or expensive necklaces. It doesn't matter.
TEMBELLİK O KADAR DA KÖTÜ DEĞİL


Tembel oldukları için çocuklarınıza kızıyorsunuz. Fakat lütfen unutmayın, tembellik yaratıcılığın başladığı yerdir. Tembel insanlar diğerleri gibi çalışmayı tercih etmez, diğerleri gibi ders çalışmayı sevmezler. Onlar kısa yolları sever. Bu çok önemli - çünkü günde sekiz saat, belki daha fazla çalışmayı sevmiyorsanız, hayatınızda para kazanabilmek, derslerinizi geçebilmek, daha hızlı ders çalışabilmek için bir şekilde hızlı ve çabuk bir seçenek bulmanız gerekir. Bu durumda çözüm kendi yaratımınız olabilir, çok özgün olur, ve her şeyi başka insanlardan daha hızlı yaparsınız.

Diyelim ki yıllık geliriniz yüz binin üzerinde olsun istiyorsunuz: Bunu ebeveynlerinizin size öğrettiği gibi uzun saatler boyunca çalışmadan nasıl yapabilirsiniz? O sadece öğrenilmiş bir davranıştı, para kazanmak için sürekli çalışmanız gerektiği anlamına kesinlikle gelmiyor. Sadece, etkili çalışmanız gerekir, ve bu etkili çalışma size istediğiniz miktarda parayı getirecektir.

Peki, ne kadar sürer? Hiç bilemezsiniz, fakat etkili çalışmanın hızlı bir yolunu bulursanız, hedeflerinize daha kolay ulaşabilirsiniz. Her zaman yedekte bir planınız olması gerekir, buna B Planı deriz. Sizin B Planınız hızlıca bir şey öğrenip o konu üzerine çalışmak olabilir, böylece yeni mesleğinizle daha fazla para kazanabilirsiniz. Asıl işinize istediğiniz kadar devam edebilirsiniz. Fazladan para kazanmanıza olanak sağlasa da, ikinci işiniz çok karmaşık veya çok zaman alıcı olmamalıdır. Bunu sadece fazladan paranız olsun diye yapıyorsunuz. Ve ikinci işinizde daha etkili ve üretken olmaya başladıkça, ailenize daha fazla para harcayabilir hale gelirsiniz, ailenizle daha fazla vakit de geçirebilirsiniz, ve kendinize zaman ayırmanız gerektiğinde kendinize daha fazla zaman harcayabilirsiniz.

Yani, tembellik o kadar da kötü değildir. Tembellik size büyükleriniz ve ebeveynleriniz tarafından anlatılan, öğretilen zorlukları aşabilme fırsatı sunar. Para kazanmak için çok fazla çalışmanız gerektiği doğru değildir. Daha fazla para kazanmak için daha etkili çalışmanız gerekir. Ve bu etkili çalışma işten işe değişir. Bazı işler vardır ki yirmi saatten fazla yapılamaz, en fazla yirmi beş saat olabilir, eğer daha fazla çalışırsanız etkililik oranınız düşer. Bu işlerin iyi yanı da budur, daha fazla para kazanmanın bir yolunu bulabilirsiniz.

Yanlış anlamayın, daha kısa sürelerle çalışmak ve daha fazla para kazanmak etkili çalışmanız gerekmediği anlamına gelmiyor. Tabi ki, haftada yirmi saat çalışıyorsanız, bu bilgi edinmek için fazladan on saat çalışacağınız anlamına gelir. Daha sonra bu bilgiyi kendinize fayda sağlamak için tekrar tekrar kullanabilirsiniz.

Öyleyse, biraz düşünün: Nasıl bir iş size uzun, upuzun saatler boyunca çalışmanız gereken bir işten daha fazla yardımcı olabilir? Kendinize bir limit koyun: İstediğiniz yaşama kavuşmak için gerçekten ne kadar paraya ihtiyacınız var? Örneğin, diyelim ki belirli bir miktar çalışmak istiyor, bir de üzerine belirli şeyler yapmak istiyorsunuz. Belki tek başınıza seyahate çıkmak istiyorsunuzdur. Belki de seyahat etmeyi değil de iyi, kaliteli restoranlarda yemek yemeyi seviyorsunuzdur. Veya çok iyi ve şık giyinmek istiyorsunuzdur. Belki de pahalı saatler, veya pahalı gerdanlıklar almayı seviyorsunuzdur. Fark etmez.

Ulaşmak istediğiniz seviye için sadece haftada yirmi saat yeterli olabilir, çünkü tembelseniz para kazanmak için kısayollar düşünmeye çalışırsınız - tabi yasalar çerçevesinde. Bunu düşünün, hangi işler size daha az çalışmanız için daha fazla para kazandırır? Bazı şehir ve eyaletlerde oraya taşınıp orada çalışmanız için para yardımı teklif edildiğini biliyor muydunuz?

Unutmayın, herkesin bir şeye ihtiyacı vardır. Bu ihtiyacı hissediyorsanız, yaşamak istediğiniz hayat için gereken parayı kazanırsınız. Bunu düşünün.

Sunday, February 19, 2017

Dear Break-up,

You need to give a time .... The first step is the denial just like drinking alcohol... you say you do not have a problem with it... You basiclly denail the facts....
Second step is acceptance !!!! Acceptance is not that easy to follow up with .... There is always that thing you are mind is it or not !!!! More likely to be or not to be !!!!

When you reach the second step 'acceptance' you feel empty and upset with the physical affects such as not eating or just eating nonstop....

Then you put a distance with it.... whatever that yo are accepting.... In your mind you are rejected and ypu dont feel doing is worth it.... till the acceptance comes and concures your physical and emotional being... then you get used to the reality...

Never the less you shall need time; One day at a time...
when you notice time is passing by and you start to forget everything you shall start to feel free...

Then everything shall change, actually your self shall change and you will start to look aomthing new, something different and again this time you shall be more aware it may end...

So break-up give us a time to see and digest the process....

Sunday, October 23, 2016

DEAR BREAK-UP


Dear Break-up,

You always make people ready by sending messages. Your messages are sent by universe ; you made people to feel more uncomfortable or just want to change the subject or just put a distance one way or another.

I apologies, I was generalizing what you are doing to everyone, although this is only me, myself and I. I thought I used to think I wasn't going to let it go this fast and also i thought he wouldn't let me go neither this fast  and of course it was an assumption as well.

I am tired i mean really tired if it is a learning experience it should not be one way it must be for both of us. Us means you and I...

Maybe, I learned the lesson from this one, it was a different lesson.... and what you need to learn ... No more giving love or sharing love... Every brake up makes me stronger and bitter for the next one. Love, you need to talk and come to an agreement WITH BREAK-UP about how to do this thing... to help me more,

Let me remind you again everything has its own reason and the core reason is to teach; you need to be aware about collateral  damage such as destroying  the person's heart.

Next time talk to LOVE and let her know what is going to happen and make love to be sure, the healed heart is not going too be killed again

Dijle Koont C.H.T

Friday, October 21, 2016

LOVE




Dear Love,

I thought you were not exist!!! Stupid me How I dare!!!!

I know You do exist now, please forgive me for my judgmental, stupid behavior I didn’t know any better.

I need your help… I lost hope and I now living love and with no hope and being in love is the most painful one. I have no hope but lots love; to give and to receive…

Please take it all or give  all of it…

Being like this and not practicing... you make me feel lonely not alone but lonely…

You know what is happening when you are lonely or maybe I should let you know….

I start to think and I start to find reasons not to love and I create how I can destroy you even though I need you to survive.

Now I am asking where are you and when are you going to capture me but not like this, the way I am having you…
 WHAT I WANT is;  you make the connection between ME and HIM and you to combine us and make us to last happily ever after ….

I am giving everything to you … The power to make it happen because I am again ready to give up.

Give up for good and not coming back to you again...



Dijle Koont C.H.T

Dear Answers,

If I ask the question, there shall be an answer…. Although when I ask the question am I going to receive the answer honestly or just the answer to postpone the reality.

I know nothing but nothing is set and dry although civilizations were based on reality and the honesty, right?
In civilizations, we were told to be honest and loving although because we are civilized we start to rationalize and analyzing everything.

According to conscious mind behavior; every answer starts to come up with not the truth , anything but truth to protect our own lies with pleasure.
Answers, please let us know how true are you going to be to questions that are asked.


Dijle Koont C.H.T